So for Valentine’s day, my daughter’s school said I should give my daughter a gift cos she
picked Wendy *not real name*
to be her “val”.
This was in addition to bringing a love feast food item and
wearing an outfit that had red, pink and white They didn’t write the word “or”
anywhere so my house helps insisted we put all the colors on her to avoid
school trouble …I was too tired to argue… so they did. The girl looked like a
female Christmas tree on her way out on valentine’s day morning if you can imagine what that would look like.
So back to the gift…. Honestly off the top of my head I
planned to give her two hair pins that had flowers on them from my collection
to give the Wendy girl.
Hallooo!!! What is their own with val’s day and how much
does she earn to want to give Wendy a gift…. bla bla bla…. I was going my stingy mum route…. that’s what PDoc.
calls me when I start like that….Why should we do party pack for her birthday when it falls on a school day? Why
should the school ask me to buy her a rabbit, a guitar, a violin, bring
bouncing castle, do T-shirts for the kids???…. bla bla bla…the school is great God knows they have turned my
daughter’s life around but you know great has its own price tag!
So I got talking with one of my friends whose son picked a “val”
as well. “What are you giving your son
to give his val?” I asked….. very
absentmindedly I might add
She then said she was going to close early from work and go
and buy the val boy an outfit as in shirt and trouser…AH!! I panicked went full
gear into stingy mum mode….”What are you doing? You people are the ones ,making
life difficult for other mums putting us on high jump”…bla bla bla I shrieked on.
She says” Haba!! it’s nothing now, a full outfit will cost
like just 1,500 naira now that’s not too much”.. then I begin to think honestly
I must really be a crazy, stingy mum.
So I get home in the
evening to meet PDoc. planning to take our daughter out to buy Wendy’s gift
because short of pulling out a gun, she
had held the man to ransom…. give me valentine gift my father or they will
embarrass me in school tomorrow oooooooo!!!!
The man was in panic mode himself…Ah! these teachers are
goooooodddd put fire on the kids so they transfer the fire to their parents and
this is not even about world peace…smh!!!.
Anyway I told him not to worry, I go into my securely hidden
“Ghana must go” of unused treasured items for the kids, bring out a complete
set of brand new precious, sacred white underwear, ribbons for hair and
hairpins, put them into a lovely chiffon bag and package it like Wendy is Kate
Winslet herself and as I pack it into my daughter’s bag, I pray to God that
Wendy or whoever picked my daughter’s name gives her a Range Rover even if it’s
the mini type that David Beckham’s children drive…its far better than rolling
tyre down the streets of Lagos!!!
Meanwhile one of my house-helps who also goes to school used
the opportunity to speak …”Aunty they said I should bring gift too oh… I picked
one boy like that, though I did not want to pick him I wanted to pick my friend
Chi Chi” *also not real name*
…at this point I had no energy to speak…I just stretched out my hand and gave
her a copy of a Tuface Cd that I got for free at an Airtel event in
2012….I had been wondering what I would
do with it. It has finally gone to a noble cause. I believe this was its
destiny…To whom it may concern.
So school is over…my baby comes home. No Range Rover in
sight. Same old school bus.
No issues…. how about an invitation to tea with the queen?
or Ok one Cinderella ball gown she can wear next Christmas?
Nope! not today….searched
the bag…not looking heavier than usual…
Aha! There it is…Alas you would never guess… Twas a cup…. A pink
plastic cup. Didn’t even have a straw
attached!!! Just a cup. Nope not a magical cup, not a set of 3 or 4 or a set of
4 and a jug.
Just a plastic cup …. You
read me right I said a plastic cup…pink …I refuse to take a picture of it…you might cry for me Argentina!
Even my house helps laughed at my expression of ……bewilderment!!!!
Aha! that should be the perfect word for
my reaction.
And I find myself thinking why don’t I have more friends
like Wendy’s mum?
They really know what’s up!! These my friends are just
Kardashians as far as I’m concerned and
they are not helping me at allllll.
That’s how one carried bouncing castle and clown to the
school for her son’s birthday in the name of he is her only child for now and
she works so hard so let her spend this money on him…..
Now that’s what I
call tough love!! The love is tough on the pocket!!! Haba! Mothers in Africa
and diaspora am I alone here?
Mothers in a Africa? Chigo, you are not alone.
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ReplyDeleteIts not bad na to b a kardashian mum na..lol when it comes to gifts...hehehe...I wuda done something extra special tho not expecting something,so i don't get disappointed to get a non magical cup....lol...burr schools sha..whts the children's own wt valentine....lol
ReplyDeleteI trust you. Lol
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