The 5 Kinds of Women.....The Doll

She is extremely beautiful or attractive (in either face, body or both) and effortlessly too. A head turner any day even in the simplest of clothes.. but upon deeper interaction with her at work or play, she may strike you as very naïve and mentally slow or even stupid; largely because she was so favored for her looks or depended on them while growing up that she never felt the need or bothered to expand her mental abilities or scope of learning beyond romance novels, fairy tales, movies, pictures and possibly fashion magazines but never newspapers or anything more “complicated”.

For obvious reasons, she doesn’t have many female friends and is very dependent on men because somehow men have always been there to pick up the pieces for her. Please note at this point that “men” here refers to both her relatives and friends alike.

She attracts gifts freely and usually all she has to do is mention to a guy or two whatever her heart desires and somehow, her wish becomes their command. Therefore she usually doesn’t have a back up plan for making money and if faced with the decision of starting a business, she may have to think a little too hard on what she can do before settling for setting up a supermarket, boutique, cooking, baking, fashion designing, make up artiste or anything typically female but rarely anything novel or competitive with male folk.

If faced with the option of getting a job, you will find her happily performing in routine functions such as a Personal Assistant, front desk person, Sales executive, customer service personnel, bank teller  etc nothing overly ambitious or competitive, technical and complicated like in accounting, statistics, engineering , IT and so on.  However, if for any reason she gets a complicated or technical role, it becomes clear to all slowly but surely that she’d be better off doing something far simpler.

 Nevertheless, the doll will always manage to attract the mercy of some male colleague (or boss) who  continually runs to her rescue  (because he considers her too fragile for the stress)delivering her from such “techy” assignments by taking the work load off her but still allowing her to take the credit. 

If the doll lacks a strong father figure in her life while growing up, she becomes promiscuous early in life and very generous at it too. She can even date best friends and see nothing wrong with it. She just wants to be loved and whoever shows her love should be rewarded.

When mature, you will find this lady as a girlfriend to one or more powerful or wealthy men but still very single because honestly men want more from a woman than exquisite beauty but if in a serious relationship or married, you will find that she is with a man who likes to show off his trophies/toys of which she is a singular unique piece. You will also find that this man is extremely possessive and jealous and this eventually becomes the basis of the bulk of their relationship “issues”.

However, if her father was very much in her life, she is usually a “daddy’s baby” and pampered by him so much that her daddy’s extreme protectiveness may not allow her to be approached by Mr. Right. In the event that her desire for adventure is more than her loyalty to daddy, she makes extremely poor choices and most likely ends up a single mum in her dad’s house. In extreme cases you will find this girl in a very complex situation as a single mother to the child of a married, wealthy man

About her car: we all know that a car usually gives lots of hints before it actually stops moving but the doll never notices the signs not to mention having a mechanic alerted so her car will definitely breakdown at a busy junction someday and she will alight from the car in  total clueless confusion until some beauty struck guy (or more than one) comes to her aid.

In the event that you find yourself as a friend, colleague, boss, lover or relative to the doll and you truly want to help her, all you have to do is help her engage her mind more. Train her to learn with her mind and not just with her eyes and encourage or praise her when she gets results. This will help her live and depend on more than her looks and of course stay out of trouble.

Meet the other 4 women and how best to understand and relate with them in following posts.